Friday, February 5, 2010

Productive Disobedience

Oxymoron? Not in this case. Earlier this week I had given Levi a few things that I needed him to do to help me out. The list included things like, getting his dirty laundry IN the basket instead of around it; putting his bed-time buddies (a blanket and dog) back in his bed; cleaning up legos; etc..
He did all of those things, except only 1/2 way or less. When I asked him to put his laundry in the basket he threw 1/2 of it in the basket and the other 1/2 he shoved where I couldn't see it. When I told him to put the bed-time things away, he threw them right in the doorway of his room, not on his bed as I had instructed. Any task I had given him he completed less than fully. I explained to him that partial obedience equals disobedience. (In a 4 year olds language, of course)
That got me thinking. I do that all the time...to God. I justify a lot of sin because I'm not being blatantly sinful. Here are some of the things that God brought to my mind that I've been doing lately that fall short of pleasing Him.

"It's not really gossiping...I'm just trying to explain how I feel about the situation with this other person"

"It's not really gossiping...I'm sharing a PRAYER REQUEST"
*maybe gossip is something I need to work on!-You think?

"It's not porn that I'm watching, it's just the story of one guy falling in love with a dozen girls and spending LOTS of time in hot tubs with them"

"I'm not lying, I'm just making the story a bit more dramatic by adding a few details, but the IDEA is the same"

"I don't think it's stealing, I look at the clerk's oversight of my box of diapers as a "blessing to our finances" !

"I'm not being a glutton, I'm pregnant, therefore I need to EAT as much as I want as often as I want"

There are a lot more examples I could give, but I think I've exposed enough of myself for one day!
Do you ever find yourself doing this? Have your kids taught you any good lessons lately through their disobedience? What's on your mind this week?


3 comments:

Mrs. Gray said...

Superb, once again!

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Julie said...

HAHAHAHAHA! That one about the porn....oh man! I was SO wondering where you were going with it...TOO FUNNY!! Oh, you always have a way of challenging me... :)